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Elopements Still Require Some Planning

February 24th, 2015 by Rachel

Elopement in Wine CountryOver the years there have been many changes in how an elopement is performed. Traditionally, a couple would head to the nearest court and get married in front of a judge. No fuss, no muss. This was one of the reasons why elopements have not been very popular. Many brides wanted to wear their special dress and get married somewhere beautiful.

The way elopements are done has changed over the years to include more than just a slap-dash ceremony. You can now get married somewhere gorgeous in a private ceremony, with a photographer or videographer recording every special moment.

While many couples may feel like just running off together and getting married, an elopement should be well thought out and considered before a couple embarks on it. Here are some of the general steps required for planning your elopement:

  1. Make sure your family and friends know and understand that you and your significant other will be eloping, not having a wedding.
  2. Find a location for the ceremony that you both love. Remember, you and your partner are the only people who will attend your wedding, so make sure the location is somewhere you both want to spend your special time together. Some locations – like Youngberg Hill – even offer elopement packages.
  3. Work out the wardrobe. Even though you aren’t doing bridesmaids and groomsmen, you will both want to wear something special. Youngberg Hill Wedding and Elopement
  4. Find a photographer/videographer. Since it’s just you and your partner, you will want plenty of photos and perhaps a video to look back on so you both can share this special day with friends, family, and children. Your elopement location may be able to help you find a great photographer.
  5. Incorporate something personal into the ceremony. This elopement is all about your love and partnership, so make sure the ceremony is personal to both of you. You can read vows, toast each other, or write love notes to read to each other after the ceremony.
  6. Decide if you will do a post-elopement party. Because your friends and family will not be attending your ceremony, you may want to have a celebration with them before or after the honeymoon. This can be a casual affair or even a party at the same location at which you were married. This way you can insure everyone feels included – without changing your marriage plans.
  7. Be sure that whatever you do, it is fun and fitting for your relationship. You two know each other best – so make sure your elopement is performed exactly as you both want.

In the end, the bond you and your partner have is often strengthened by marriage – whether you have a big ceremony or an elopement. Here’s wishing you many happy years together!

Making the Choice: Wedding or Elopement

July 8th, 2014 by Rachel

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Many couples are making the choice: wedding or elopement?  There is nothing wrong with either decision.

An elopement can mean a quick, less costly confirmation of your love.  A wedding may mean additional expense, but it is also a huge celebration.

 

Before deciding on either option, ask your significant other the following questions – and have him or her ask you the same questions:

Will there be hurt feelings all around if you don’t have a wedding?

While your wedding or elopement is ultimately a confirmation of your love for one another, family and friends may feel hurt if you don’t include them.  You have options – so is an exclusive elopement the right one?

Why do you want to run off together?

Weddings can be stressful.  They require a lot of planning – but there is a big payoff at the end.  Do you and your significant other want to elope because a wedding is daunting – and it’s hard to keep your eye on the prize?  Or do you enjoy spontaneity and don’t want to deal with the stress of wedding planning?

There is no “right reason” for having an elopement in the place of a wedding.  However, if you or your partner really want a wedding in the end – that desire needs to be respected.

Would it work to mix things up?

A “strict” elopement of just you and your significant other running away to marry with no celebration may make one or both of you unhappy.  Instead, try eloping and having a reception afterwards or do a destination wedding that feels like an elopement because there are so few people there.

Remember that this decision is much like choosing the right wine for your palate – it’s whatever works best for you and your partner. Wishing you both all the best!

Four Tips for Planning Your Destination Elopement

May 20th, 2014 by Rachel

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You and your partner have decided: you’re getting married.  There’s no need for a big wedding, it would be more fun to get hitched away from all that stress.  Even better, you’re getting married at a destination of your choice.  This opens up the option of honeymooning at your marriage location.

We understand your needs here at Youngberg Hill. That’s why we provide services for just such an occasion.  Even though you’re not having “the big wedding,” there is still planning involved in an elopement. Here are are four tips for planning your perfect destination elopement.

Tip 1: Location is important.

Whether you will be honeymooning at your marriage location or not, it’s important that you find the spot that you will remember forever.  Even though this is not a huge wedding with a reception, catering, and crowds, you and your significant other will remember these moments for the rest of your lives.  So, pick a place that you will love to remember – together.

That brings us to the next tip:

Tip 2: Be sure to get a great photographer.

Your marriage location may be able to recommend some great, local photographers, or perhaps you can find someone on your own for your special day.  Either way, remember that you are only sharing this day with your partner.  No one else will be around to snap candid moments or grab Uncle Bill’s camera for a few shots.  You will want a professional you can trust to capture the moments of your marriage so you can your partner can look back on this special day and smile together.

Tip 3: Don’t forget the marriage license!

Here in Yamhill county there are specific requirements for obtaining a marriage license.  One such requirement is a waiting period which may be waived for a fee.  There’s also an age requirement (18 years of age, 17 if a parent or guardian gives consent.)  It’s really simple to obtain a marriage license here, so be sure to get one before the elopement.

Tip 4: Do something special post-marriage.

There won’t be any big reception, cake cutting, or bouquet toss after your nuptials.  That doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate!  Whether you head out for dinner, share a bottle of wine, or have a giant party when you get home, be sure to do something fantastic to celebrate the amazing, life-long commitment you both just made.

An elopement is incredibly personal and special.  Here’s to yours being the perfect day to start the rest of your lives together!